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Not behaving like the expert can take many forms. One of them: trying to avoid pushback, arguments, or resistance in your relationship with clients. It can hurt you more than help. You can be in the order-taking business, if you prefer. And that's fine. The impact that comes from it, though, will be smaller. You can be in the service business, where your impact will be higher. Or you can be in the transformation business, and help them achieve the potential your customers have. How you want to be the expert —or not— is up to you. |
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Trying to sound polite takes so much effort for you. In that effort of not sounding aggressive/offensive/needy/greedy you end up using fluffy language. Might Shall Maybe Should Could Hope ... All of it when you know the answer is No. You'll have to pay. The price is X. Yes, my service is expensive. A way to stop overthinking is being comfortable with the hard conversations. It's not (and won't be) easy. It's way harder if you're not used to this. Way way waaaaay harder if you're introverted....
There are a few ways to get 10K ideas off of your own head. Writing sporadically. Writing daily. Publishing daily. Journaling. Prototyping. Running an idea inventory. They all need one thing, though: consistency. It's hard as hell. I can tell: on my Clifton Strength Assessment, consistency is my VERY last one. Yet it's the only way to look for ideas, and find clarity in the way. Clarity in your thinking. Clarity in your approach. Get those 10K bad ideas off your head. :)
“We all have 10,000 bad drawings in us. The sooner we get them out the better.” Attributed to Walt Stanchfield Same is with your ideas. Quality over quantity, yes. Although, to get to that quality you first need quantity. Repetition. Brain dump. You need to get your ideas off your head, so that you can think of the new ones in queue.